the dean and i
My sister and I have been talking and we chanced upon the topic of being SingLe. I’m at this point in my life and still no partner in sight (>sob!-wink)! I have never worried about it until lately that I found myself as one of the few partnerless or the only dateless in the bundle.
Ellaine confessed that she sees me in her Dean. Dean is in her forties. Smart, sassy, pretty, stylish, succesful (>no wonder my sister compared me to Dean-she is so like me-hehe) and (>tadah!) single. I was not hurt by what Ellaine’s getting at. Though it is my dream to have a family someday (>a partner and a bunch of kiddos), I am so ready if that would not be granted.
Miday and I have talked about it too because we are two of the few left in Xaijua with a cricket-sounding love life (>haha!). She asked me if I have been praying for it and I realized that maybe I should. Middy is a born again christian and has been praying for her man eversince. I, on the other hand, have just graduated from my CLP. I don’t always remember to include it in my prayers but when I do, I tell God "Please grant me a partner who will love me and who I will love back. God, let him be someone who shares the same principles and dreams that I have. Please let him be a responsible person…May God blessed me with the One but as of now, I am content. Whatever plans He has for me, I am ready to take.
I am single but that does not mean I’m alone. I am single but that does not mean I’m sad. I maybe even happier than those with partners (>with a slight touch of bitterness-kidding!).
>reposted from my blogspot (Sunday, September 2, 2007)
November 10th, 2008 at 2:50 am
Good for people to know.